MEMTM is the most subtle, yet profound, modality I have ever come across. It’s professional without feeling clinical, it’s the right amount of alternative without feeling undefined. It’s truly the missing link that ties in the countless years and dollars spent on endless self-development work, provided a person is willing and ready to accept what is and what isn’t.
When we tell the world we want to be healed yet we tell ourselves we’re broken and unfixable, we’ve self sabotaged before we even gave ourselves a chance to witness that the sabotage came from us. We allow the assumption that ‘it didn’t work’ and that outside forces are to blame, offering the perfect opportunity to gather further evidence to support our self-loathing case. This was me and I used to pride myself on my self-sabotaging skills (like I was some wizard, Harry) to prove to the world that my abandonment issues were very real and by doing so my existence felt momentarily justified.
If a person is ready to befriend themselves it means they are ready to stop lying to themselves and MEMTM will immediately give them that lifelong friendship they’ve always dreamt of, because once they experience their true self they can no longer hide.
I would have to say that MEMTM directly hands a person back their full sovereignty and total autonomy, so that they can finally live peacefully at one within themselves and create whatever it is they wish to create from a place of real choice, rather than out of fear. So be prepared to feel spacious for these decisions.
I understand that experiencing space can feel a little daunting or even quite boring at first - that peace can feel like a kind of nothingness but that’s the whole point - if we create the space for the nothingness, we then hold the power of potentiality for the everythingness! That’s the fun part we then get to explore moving forward.
For me being at peace offers the most magnificent opportunity to explore creation in its most pure form with no agenda or expectation of how future creations will be perceived by the rest of the world. Because now, no opinion could be more important than my own.
For the first time in my life I can finally make art for the sake of making art and ironically that’s when my best creations form. I have full trust in my journey ahead because whatever I do is purely out of self expression and I get to enjoy the process rather than anxiously relying on the end result to bring me satisfaction. And when I say “make art” I’m not only talking about using my hands for skillful creation, I’m also talking about perfecting the art of be-ing and painting my life into a masterpiece…
From now on when I create something, there’s no longer the fear or doubt that creeps in - the shoulds & shouldn’ts - I’m no longer seeking approval or validation through my work or in my relationships. I am free to just be, and explore me without the noise or distractions.
I am unbelievably grateful for my foundation session with Quinika and I will spend a lifetime indebted to this modality because MEMTM has truly gifted me my life back in its full capacity. Now I get to take this new found sense of freedom and run with the wind.
What a privilege it is to reap the benefits of this quantum shift and to truly experience life's wonder, mystery, awe & sheer beauty. In every peaceful moment I get to be and exist for the sake of existing rather than being burdened by distraction and stress or driven by unrealistic ambition. I get to create and express myself from this fruitful place of abundance and even if I do nothing, it’s okay because my existence alone is creative enough.
I have full faith in my future, whether it be making art or babies, because I know I will be making clear decisions that are right for me, by me, and not from unreconciled past challenges that have kept me feeling stuck and forced me to fumble into my future out of fear from pain and past trauma.
I am finally free.